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Is love ever enough?
I watched a movie and it was all romantic and lovey dovey. I was "awwing" but the relationship coach in me kept screaming red flag, no way, how can you fall for that, use your head girl, etc....
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How realistic are your expectations?
I think we are all kind of guilty of this. We have an image of a perfect spouse based on what we read, what we "think " we see in other people and what we have experienced. As a result , we b...
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Restriction on Communication
A lot of people have placed restrictions on communication with their partners because of hurt they are yet to heal from or fear of being vulnerable. While it's not likely that people have set...
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Encouragement VS Praise
Encouragement is further than praise. I encourage even when I don't see result just yet. I believe in them, in their effort , in capabilities and capacity and even the manifestation is n...
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In-laws in Love or In-laws Otherwise
One of the things you need to discuss extensively before marriage is relationship with the "laws". Discussion is however different from reality but the discussion can be a very useful guide i...
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Married but Acting Single
Another issue that couples have is those that are married but have chosen to continue to act single. Such actions can include:1. You make sole decisions that affects your home without carryin...
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The Race to Snap back after Delivery
Oh the joy of having a little one, nurturing, loving and caring. So cute and so dependent on you. The love for them is so fierce you can protect them with all that you have.The struggle to ge...
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Beware of Crises Induced Life Changing Decisions
People respond to difficult situations and circumstances differently. Events sometimes makes people take count and reflect on what is important to them. Some hasten up decision making on issu...
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Intimacy cannot be achieved without Vulnerability
Vulnerability requires a high degree of trust. Is your partner free to be themselves or they hold back from baring it all. All round vulnerability is necessary in building a happy and he...
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