I watched a movie and it was all romantic and lovey dovey. I was “awwing” but the relationship coach in me kept screaming red flag, no way, how can you fall for that, use your head girl, etc.
Let me gist you. This guy is badly behaved and hurt because his mother betrayed him. He displayed this bad attitude to everyone around him. This girl, who is his personal assistant , stayed in spite of the ridicule and emotional abuse. She was there for him, stayed with him , stuck to him, etc until he realised and told her he loved her. And they hugged and decided that they were going to get married. The end !
The end really or the beginning. They will get married and face life for real. What’s going to happen then? Because he proclaimed that he loves you will not stop the emotional abuse. It will not stop the bad behaviour. Oh, you have lived with the behaviour during your dating days, don’t wish he will change there after.
Friends, hurt people hurt other people. If you dealt with the extreme baggage while dating, be ready to deal with multiple of that when you get married. Whatever you see now is a glimpse of what you will experience fully in marriage.
In choosing, while its all mushy and tingly, use your head while not ignoring your heart.