TRUETALK
My name is Temitope Imoh

I proffer practicable tailor-made solutions that help individuals move forward to achieve healthy and happy relationships

Contacts
Whatsapp: +234 805 782 3703
Phone: +234 802 828 2434
Email: temitope@truetalkwithtemitope.com
© Truetalk with Temitope 2026 I Designed by Pdomnicks Multimedia

Category: Relationship

Is love ever enough?
November 23, 2020

I watched a movie and it was all romantic and lovey dovey. I was "awwing" but the relationship coach in me kept screaming red flag, no way, how can you fall for that, use your head girl, etc. Let me gist you. This guy is badly behaved and hurt because his mother betrayed him. He displayed this bad attitude to everyone around him. This girl, who is his personal assistant , stayed in spite of the ridicule and emotional abuse. She was there for him,...

How realistic are your expectations?
November 23, 2020

I think we are all kind of guilty of this. We have an image of a perfect spouse based on what we read, what we "think " we see in other people and what we have experienced. As a result , we build up certain image of who an ideal mate is.Why cant he help around the house the way my dad does?Why cant we be super duper dope in his dressing the way Tunde is?Why cant she be a firebrand prayer warrior the way sister Tamedu is? Bisi gave birth and has...

Restriction on Communication
November 23, 2020

A lot of people have placed restrictions on communication with their partners because of hurt they are yet to heal from or fear of being vulnerable. While it's not likely that people have set out physical of what not to discuss , they have set the list in their minds like : I can never talk about this or that.Peradventure their partner mistakenly initiates conversations in that directions, they either become very defensive or recoil and go into...

Encouragement VS Praise
November 23, 2020

Encouragement is further than praise. I encourage even when I don't see result just yet. I believe in them, in their effort , in capabilities and capacity and even the manifestation is not evident, I choose to encourage and boost their moral.What am I saying? As it relates to your relationship, do you offer only praise and refuse to encourage ? Praise does wonders. It makes your partner know that you see them and all their efforts....

Married but Acting Single
November 23, 2020

Another issue that couples have is those that are married but have chosen to continue to act single. Such actions can include:1. You make sole decisions that affects your home without carrying your partner along.2. You don't check in with your partner your let them know where you are or let know you will be coming in late.3. You try to hide the fact that you are married to outsiders who don't know you4. Your mannerism is always seductive to the...

Intimacy cannot be achieved without Vulnerability
November 23, 2020

Vulnerability requires a high degree of trust. Is your partner free to be themselves or they hold back from baring it all. All round vulnerability is necessary in building a happy and healthy relationship. According to Brene Brown, vulnerability is the glue that holds intimate relationships together.Some of the reasons why people are not vulnerable include:1. Trust issues2. Fear of rejection by your spouse3. Pressure by your partner to perform...

Can I have other best friends outside my partner?
November 23, 2020

We are not meant or created to walk life on our own. Jettisoning your friends because you are in a serious relationship or because you are married is folly of the highest order. They say your partner should be your best friend. Does that mean you shouldn't have other friends? It's not having friends that destroys relationships but who you have as your friend and their influence in your decision making. Your friends dont have to be super close...

Why am I attracted to broken people?
November 23, 2020

Some people  see cool, calm , collected , well behaved and awesome but , no!, they will be attracted to broken and busted. The reasons for your fatal and destructive attraction may include :1. You feel the need to save them by being there for them. Newsflash : you cant change anyone that does not wish to be changed.2. You feel sorry for them and think your being there will make a difference.3. You don’t think you deserve better because of...

Signs that you are Desperate Lover
November 23, 2020

1. Always stalking on social media. Setting up post notifications for all their posts, 1st to like and comment on all their posts.2. Cooking, cleaning , scrubbing and house keeping for someone you just met.3. Being consistently and actively in the life and home of their relatives just to make them like you.4. Accept everything they tell you to do. Not having a mind of your own or opinion about anything.5. Buy them everything they ask for with the...

InstagramFacebookWhatsappYouTube

Content is protected. Right-click function is disabled.