1. Always stalking on social media. Setting up post notifications for all their posts, 1st to like and comment on all their posts.
2. Cooking, cleaning , scrubbing and house keeping for someone you just met.
3. Being consistently and actively in the life and home of their relatives just to make them like you.
4. Accept everything they tell you to do. Not having a mind of your own or opinion about anything.
5. Buy them everything they ask for with the hope that those material things would keep them.
6. Trying so hard to be their spec (what their definition of husband or wife material is).
7. Bending over backwards to please his/her friends.
8. Compromise your values and morals to keep them.
9. Forgive all errors without addressing the issues.